Recognize Your Destiny Points

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Recognize Your Destiny Points

Mar 26, 2016 | JVP's Blog

Think of a moment in your life that changed everything that went after it. You might have been flicking TV channels and happened upon a travel show that inspired you to take a life changing journey. A teacher may have encouraged you to pursue a new career path. Or a chance meeting might have put you face to face with your soul mate. Moments like this are destiny points – and they don’t happen by accident.

Creating your Soul Blueprint.

Early in my career as a medium, Spirit made me aware of the “Soul Blueprint” that charts the course of our lives. Here’s how it works. Before you begin your lifetime on earth, your soul holds a “planning session” with help from your spirit guides, teachers and loved ones in the spirit world.  It is there the course of your current lifetime is determined.

Along with selecting your soul family – those people who will deliver the most soulful lessons of your life – the blueprint includes a map of your destiny points. Destiny points are events with the potential to change the course of your life. Meeting your soul-mate, getting a job offer, moving to a new place, even experiencing a serious illness or accident are all examples of potential destiny points. These events are determined in advance, but because you have free will, how you choose to react to them is your decision!

Recognizing destiny points when they happen.

When destiny calls, will you be listening? How can you be sure you are making choices that support the plan that the universe has for you? Once you’re engaged in all the activities that are part of life on earth, it’s easy to get distracted and react hastily, or not at all, when you encounter a fork in the road – making decisions that pull you off your intended course.

Here’s how to be mindful of the critical crossroads in your life, and make choices that will allow you to stay in on the route that your soul blueprint has laid out for you.

1) Look out for signs! Spirit has ways of letting you know when you’ve reached an important destiny point and have a choice to make. Be aware to dreams, thoughts or longings that stay with you, recurring words, numbers and symbols, and people who you feel an immediate strong connection with.  Tune into your intuition for clues on how to proceed. Intuition is the voice of the soul, so listen to what it tells you.

2) Find the opportunity in all situations – especially the difficult ones.  Sometimes a challenge, a loss or an illness can help us to discover our true purpose. Remember – it’s not what happens to you, it’s how you react to it that matters. You are more likely to react positively if your ask yourself “What can I learn from this?” rather than “WHY ME!?”

3) Prioritize your own desires over the expectations of others. Learn to recognize what is important to YOU – this awareness will sound an alarm if you’re faced with a difficult choice, or are starting down the wrong path. Trust your gut!

You might need some extra help to recognize your destiny points and take advantage of the opportunities that they hold. I have created a course to help you to transform your life from the inside out.  It’s launching in a couple of days and contains exercises, videos and live calls to help you on your life’s path. You can find out more by going to, or by keeping an eye on your inbox for a special early bird offer!